Okay Now I have said some bad things before. But it has always been in my defense. Mostly people attacking me first and something mean comes out. Today I was told a story of a fellow worker of mine saying something really mean to a friend. He said it as a joke, but joking about personal issues is not funny. especially when its things the person does not want other people to know about. He then has the balls to ask the girl if she is made at him. Now in his defense he is young. Now when I say young I don't mean 12. I'm 20, but I believe I have matured well beyond 20 at this point. He is 19 and he still has a long way to go. You can tell just by looking at him. Its all in life experiences and I think maybe that's why I don't hangout with people my own age. This is not me glorifying myself, but there are just some things you don't say unless you are ready for what it brings. I think he needs to not try to hurt people in the strive to make others laugh. Only do that unless you plan on not being their friend anymore. I wont tell him this though. We will all learn in our own time. No one came out and told me the lessons I learned straight out.